some people might think “what the hell in her minds??” when know someone around their age getting married or engage.
and i do heard it a lot these days. this year exactly, when i’m still on our early lively period of life. when we are in the beginning of our twenties.
and i read anonymous said something like “i dont understand why people get rushed to get married early. it is stupid”.
really? i dont think so.
i dont feel it is stupid.
i dont see any stupidity in marry on young age
i know maybe some people maybe have think if get married early you wont able to achieve your dream, you wont see many people as you can see because your life might get trapped, and so on.
if you are girls, your life stuck at bed and kitchen, no make up no new dress just gossiping and take care of kids. hardly socialize and have to carry a baby inside you for 9 months. and thats not all, after that about 25 years later you are the one that responsible of all your kids behavior and action.
if you are boys, you cant date or have eye candy with another hot chick, you have to get up early and go back late just to see your wife, a person you will see every SINGLE day of your entire life and go back to wake up early just to get some bucks which in the end you grab nothing because you had to pay bills, food, house, and your kids expenses.
then why i dont see a stupidity in that super horrible life?
i dont know
i see it as a super amazing kind of life
i dont see it will be boring if you meet a same person in your life
i see its as a sweet thing
you see, you meet, you care, and you are not worried about the person you love the most every day. together.
yah maybe you can tell i am naive, i am childish.
but i believe this kind of love is true.
about money, if you said it is enough then it will be enough, it depends on your expenses actually, basic needs will only cost you not much
about eye candy, it can satisfy your prime wild needs just in seconds, but true love? you will need it more than an hour, more than a year.
about baby, i dont understand either why people think it is a trouble some. it is a gift.
ya i know it will cost you a lot and some people may not wise and patience enough to raise a kids. but you can discuss it with your mate having it years later after your marriage.
about dreams, if its really your dream than you wont let any thing bothers and stops you. even disable person can achieve dreams, than why you cant?
i know its third millennium where we live side by side with technology every since we open our eyes and ended up with technology. and i know maybe it is not reliable to take an example of our grandma and grandpa whom get married at end of teens and just see their mate at the wedding day.
but if you really really really hold for a second, that is possible. it is true, we are lucky to have ability to choose who we want to marry, to see better option and to know each other before committing something into lifetime choices. then how you can loose in letter to letter to maintain a relationship like soldier in war world age when you can have skype to skype age?
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